Honouring the Household

Exodus 20:17

Community – especially as it is undergoing formation – means attending to the common good. This command addresses the need also for individual identity and respect. Who we are includes what we are surrounded with, especially the people of our family, and “anything that belongs” to our household.

What is particularly striking here is that we are to guard over even our thoughts concerning our neighbour and his/her household. Putting it positively, it would be to have a disposition of respect and honour toward the household of our neighbour.

Once again the male-dominant character of the cultural setting comes through. Presumably it’s not OK to covet your neighbour’s husband, or her ox or donkey, or Mustang convertible.

Prayer:
Lord, I am reminded how fresh and contemporary your commands are. With the neighbourhood constantly changing and expanding, remind me today and every day of the need to respect and honour the integrity of families of every background. Let us make the most of what you entrust to each of us. Through Christ. Amen.